Past relationship trauma can often linger long after a relationship has ended. It can be confusing when a relationship feels safe, but there are times when your partner still seems guarded, distant, or fearful.

Perfectionism is often praised as a strength, and while it does have some clear benefits, it can also take a serious toll on your mental health. Many people who struggle with perfectionist tendencies also experience harsh self-criticism, high-functioning anxiety, and all-or-nothing thinking, also known as black and white thinking.

January has a way of making people feel like it’s time to start over and turn over a new leaf – everywhere you look, there’s messaging about setting New Year's resolutions to become a better, healthier, more productive version of yourself.