When your adult child cuts off contact, the feelings loss can feel impossible to place. You might feel a deep sense of sadness and grief, like your child has died. You might also feel shame at the status of your relationship, or anger at how things fell apart.

If you’re left thinking “why won’t my teen share with me” or “my teenage son won’t talk to me,” know that you’re not alone.

June is Men’s Mental Health month, a time for us to reflect on the mental health needs and struggles of men. Of course, people of all genders struggle with mental health issues, but Men’s Mental Health Month is a time to highlight that many men struggle silently with anxiety, depression, stress, grief, and loneliness.

Many women move through their day carrying an invisible checklist. Appointments to schedule, meals to plan, reminders to send, emotions to manage, problems to anticipate. Even during quiet moments, their minds still run through what needs to happen next and who needs their support.

Holiday gatherings can be some of the most joyful moments of the year, but they can also bring unexpected stress and family drama. Even when we love our family, grating interactions, conversations, in-laws, or traditions can stir up old tensions or uncomfortable emotions.