Many women move through their day carrying an invisible checklist. Appointments to schedule, meals to plan, reminders to send, emotions to manage, problems to anticipate. Even during quiet moments, their minds still run through what needs to happen next and who needs their support. 

There’s no doubt that we’re living in extreme times. From Minneapolis and across the country, social media feeds are filled with intense, highly distressing news about community protests, fatal shootings by immigration agents, children and families being detained, and other stressful events. These events have rightly sparked public outrage, protests, and a broader sense of tension permeating many facets of everyday life.

Holiday gatherings can be some of the most joyful moments of the year, but they can also bring unexpected stress and family drama. Even when we love our family, grating interactions, conversations, in-laws, or traditions can stir up old tensions or uncomfortable emotions. 

Setting and maintaining healthy boundaries is essential for fostering respectful and balanced relationships.